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Fake Your Way to Happiness

Acting confident is key


A portrait shot of a man smiling while standing in the road
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Quick Win

Strike a power pose and exude confidence during uncomfortable or intimidating situations.

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  • Act the part. Convey confidence and happiness during meetings to make a great impression. Your mood may also influence your perception of — and expectations about — yourself and what you can accomplish.
  • Stand strong. Sit or stand in a power pose: hands on hips, elbows out, knees apart. It may help you feel happier, more confident and less stressed.
  • Crack a grin. Smiling when you don’t feel happy may trigger positive reactions that help you truly experience those emotions.

Why

If you’re facing an intimidating situation, whether it’s a job interview or a first date, some positive thinking might improve your chances of success. A powerful stance may boost your morale as well. A study published in 2019 in Current Psychology found that among 120 young adults, those who sat or stood in power poses for two minutes experienced a greater increase in self-esteem after the activity compared to participants who posed in slumped positions or were not instructed to pose.

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