Challenges
On the third Wednesday evening of each month, Tina R. McCrea opens her laptop, adjusts the camera and greets caregivers from across the country.
These virtual gatherings, which she calls Wellness Wednesdays, offer caregivers a space to exhale, connect and rediscover the power of caring for themselves as deeply as they care for others. A Certified Dementia Practitioner trained to educate those affected by dementia and ministry leader in Covington, Georgia, McCrea combines her own caregiving experience with professional expertise.
She also relies on AARP’s Staying Sharp program. McCrea knows from experience that caregivers often neglect their own health, yet taking better care of themselves may help them provide better care for the person they support. Research shows that Staying Sharp’s six pillars of brain health play measurable roles in supporting a healthy lifestyle.
McCrea includes the pillars in each Wellness Wednesday session, showing about a dozen caregivers each month how to turn research-based practices into habits that they can realistically apply to their busy lives. She explains, “Staying Sharp gave me tools, and I wanted to share them with others who might not know where to start.” She launched the sessions in February 2025 and hopes to grow the community further.
From caregiver to community teacher
McCrea’s journey began with her mother’s dementia diagnosis. Like many families, hers faced the confusion, stress and exhaustion that often come with caregiving. She slept on the sofa in her mother’s apartment, providing constant support while balancing her own responsibilities. Life with chronic stress planted the seeds for Wellness Wednesdays.
“I learned that stress could take me out if I didn’t manage it. I realized if I was struggling this much, others must be too,” she says.
McCrea often shares that story when discussing the brain health pillar manage stress. She talks about Staying Sharp tools, like breathing techniques, journaling prompts and social connection, to show caregivers how to calm their bodies and recharge. The takeaway: Taking care of yourself is part of taking care of your loved one.
During a recent session on Ongoing exercise, McCrea invited a local fitness instructor to demonstrate chair exercises. She told participants: “Step by step counts, and every bit of movement adds up.”
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