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Cuddle Before Bedtime

Some end-of-the-day snuggling may increase your zzz’s

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Staying Sharp

Updated April 06, 2023

Updated April 06, 2023

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Quick Win

Making a close connection with your partner before bed may improve sleep.

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Start a daily snuggling routine with your partner.
Check in with each other for a pre-sleep conversation or take three deep breaths together to release the stressors of the day.
If you’re feeling frisky, go for it: Sex before bed may help improve overall enjoyment, research suggests.

Why

Sharing a bed with a significant other may help you get more REM sleep, the phase of sleeping associated with memory consolidation, emotion regulation and creative problem-solving. In a study of almost 7,000 men and women ages 50 to 89, those who were sexually active — even just kissing and petting — expressed greater enjoyment with life, according to a 2018 report in Sexual Medicine.

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